That pad would still pass a safety inspection here. I'm not sure what they're talking about with uneven wear. You aren't rubbing the indicators or scraping through the pad compound, so I don't know what's going on with that. As for the rotors and calipers, I never knew there was a difference on '02's. When I got my new rotors and pads they fit like a glove. Are you doing this or is the shop who did your inspection? If it's the shop who did the inspection I'd start to think something shady was going on, but I'm not trying to accuse anyone of anything, to be clear.