i will check for the oils tomorrow! good thought! and i sure as hell hope that is not the case... im really gettin dissapointed with this whole situation as of right now, i dont have the money for a head gasket replacement, no where near for that matter. Yes i am adding coolant, i turn the car on, take the cap off, every time the tank is low, so i add water, and burp it and add water as needed, with the heater on full blast, i burp it untill the upper radiator hose is getting hot and pressurised and at that point it still seems to have bubbles coming out of it, but they are very small, dont know what that means, i just figured that was me getting the last little bits of air out, but it keeps draining somewhere, and i still have no heat. i cannot find a leak AT ALL. today after my lady got home, i had her rev the engine a bit while i watched the exhaust, this was done at normal running temp, and it was clear as clear gets, no sign whatsoever of water or steam. still waiting on the CEL from after i changed the plugs. will update in the morning about the oil in coolant check. OH and as a side note, when i looked at the used plugs, they all looked axactly the same, there wasnt one in particular that was any different from the other, i thought with a blown head gasket the cylinder that was taking on coolant would show in the plug...?