Join Date: Jan 2007
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As you get older you become wiser and i am not saying that i was not a smart dude when i was in my teens and early 20's. it is just that the game gets a little bit more complex but i have realized that you should never go against two things. your gut feeling and the first thing that comes to mind(better judgement). especially when it come down to relationships. I was told that you will see a person true colors in 6months to 1 year. oh how so true have that been. i posted months ago about my current relationship costing me a lot of money and when i seen this occur i should have went with a) my gut feeling and b) my better judgement and broke up with this person. instead i went with option c) "its bad but not that bad". there are only a few in this world that look at things that way. those are the ones that have not been torn apart by others stupidity,negativity and pure selfishness. The ones that believe that a "players game can be changed in the 9th ining".NOT POSSIBLE
I know some of you are thinking this dude is only worried about money? nah! the money now is just a big issue. Christmas of last year got a her a coach bag plus i gave her $400 what i get? nothing. not even a month later she needed $300. this time i only gave her $150. then two weeks later she crashed my car. costing me 1600 dollars in rapair. i paid for it cash so that it wouldnt make her insurance go higher. And inbetween all of this i went against*again* my better judgement and moved in with her. hoping to help her with a financial troubles. Not soon after moving in i noticed why she was in such financial difficulties. calling off work constantly. So again i went against my *better judgement* and we found a house together. Ahhh haaa now the real person comes out. She started to treat me like straight garbage, talking down to me. hell her dog gets better treatment then i do lol And i started to see things for what they were when i started my car club up. she complained that i never invited her to our gatherings. so i took her to one and not even 10 mins later she wanted to leave. next we were having a cruise and then going to eat at a local restaurant. i asked her if she would come. She said "hell no i dont want to be around your hillbilly friends and i dont eat that cheap crap". at that point i was like oh ok. she dont suprise me anymore. i have seen my rainy day money go from 4k+ to only $35 in about one year, she dont know about the raise i got at work. The thing that is eating at me is the fact that i am not sending money to my son the way i was before i met her and my mom is in some financial difficulties and i cant help her. i make pretty damn good money but i have to constantly worry about what she cant cover and what money will be needed because some utility might get disconnected. i paid 50 bucks for a backpack for school and this chick just about lost it. now she claims that i dont have any money because i paid for school, what she didnt know was that i had to take a lown out to pay for school when in fact i should have been able to pay for school with one paycheck.there is so much more but i will not allow my self again to go against my better judgement.i am not upset and i am in fact proud of mysefl because the last relationship it took me 7 years to see that i was not being treated well and this one it only took me 1. i recently purcahsed a brand new bedroom set, washer and dryers and when i move out she can keep them. just as a reminder that she lost someone good.
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