so many problems is right. My god I would have ripped that ##### off there long ago. . .
The donut gasket subaru uses is to help maintain flexibility at that joint to help prevent leaks in the long term. MANY aftermarket exahust makers do NOT incorperate that donut style gasket, is there production flawed? I would say hardly. My Helix DP is mated to my stock catback with no donut, running on about 1.5 years, my own makeshift gaskets used from autozone (read about 5$) and No leakie yet.
If it was leaking badly with the donut in place, what makes you think it will stop leaking if you put another on?
And why is it not mating up now? eg where is the leak?
maybe you should sell that mother on ebay and get on that mates to the stock DP
